@Thelearner oh bless you, I really do feel for you as it is just SO stressful isn't it. I also think that GP and pharmacists are generally really unhelpful in this situation.
My LB is 3 now. He has occasionally taken calpol recently. Normally when i pass him the seringe he'll do it himself, but not always, but I do see progress, finally.
I think taking a step back from forcing the medicine in him and using the sepositories was the turning point for us. He's associated medicine with being, well pinned down basically, and there was just no chance. You can buy the sepositories over the counter, quite expensive. After much pushing from me I got them on a repeat from the GP. One GP refused to prescribe them as he didn't feel comfortable but then told me to buy them OTC and he was happy for me to do so! Doesn't make sense does it? But then I spoke to an Australian doctor, who basically told me that the suppositories are relatively unknown in this country, but not so in others. She said that a lot of doctors are hesitant with them because they just don't have the experience, so I think it really does depend on who you speak to. Anyway, as I said we ended up getting them on a repeat prescription and I got a stock to have in the house for emergency use only.
The suppositories really were a game changer for us. I just don't know how I would've been able to get him to take medicine if I hadn't have used that method. Obviously I felt horrible having to give them to him, but it was for his own good. If you finding yourself at a point where you physically can't get him to take medicine then I would really encourage you to just take a step back and make your life a bit easier and use the sepositories.
I can't really say that anything else is particularly helped to be honest. I do remember reading someone else saying that they got the medicine in tablet form and crushed it up and put it on food, I don't really know if you could do that with Calpol though?
Oh I'm the OP on this thread, I just changed my user name since then 🙂