so a little about my situation… October last year while on a family holiday I found out my ex husband and father to my two teenage girls was cheating on me, we have since divorced and he has moved in with the woman.
he still sees our girls on a regular basis but always at the house we all shared this is because both my girl refuse to have anything to do with his partner. I try to be as amicable as possible with him for my daughters sake but at times it proves to be a too much for me. The only time he stays with the children over night is if I go and stay at family or friends. Now here comes the tricky part I am in the process of selling our joint home to move into a rented house for just myself and my girls and really want to start moving on with my life I have asked him if he intends to buy/rent a house of his own so that he can have joint custody of the children to which I don’t get a straight answer so I’m assuming he intends to continue living with his partner. I don’t know if I’m being selfish but I’d like him to have the girls more so not only they get time with him but I also get time to be me.. my girls know he cheated and this is what makes them not want anything to do with her and I would never force that but I feel like he gets to do whatever he wants and I have pick up the pieces. Has anyone been in a similar situation and how have you overcome this.. I will obviously do anything for my girls but I do want them to have a relationship with there dad but it’s so hard having him round when I just want to not have anything to do with him.