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Of your child has autism did you know at 12mo?

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worriedmumsy · 16/10/2022 19:02

If your child has autism what were they like at 12mo? Or if they were showing signs did it turn out to be not autism?

There's a few things I have started to notice with ds and wondered if your child has autism could you tell as early as 10/11/12 months?
I'm wondering because ds is showing some signs we think he might be

He doesn't respond to his name anymore
He's barely making eye contact now
When he's sitting down and gets really excited he flaps his arms up and down laughing
He doesn't speak. He used to say Mama, Dada and the dogs name. Now he doesn't speak at all. He used to babble but now only makes noises and grunts for things
He used to wave but not anymore
He doesn't point or gesture for things

His personality is amazing. I don’t know if personally comes into an autism assessment but he is the sweetest little boy. He is kind and caring and always shares. Will happily let you taste whatever he’s eating. He’s also very intelligent. He’s always interested in working things out like the safety clips on his chair and pram. He has mastered putting the prongs in the clip and laughs over and over if you keep unclipping and clipping again

He is very much a mum and dads boy and isn’t very sociable however, I haven’t been out much with him due to PND and backache so can’t say for sure re this but I am trying to get out mor

All of the above are making me lean towards yes but he’s also trying to walk at the moment and is really suffering with molars teething (from 9mo) which I’ve read can stop babies from progressing. It’s the regression me and DP are worried about

Could anyone else tell this early ?
Are there any refreshing stories where it did turn out to just be them focusing on walking and the talking/babbling came back?

Thank you for reading x

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Sprogonthetyne · 21/08/2024 18:04

DC1 was a very difficult baby, and in retrospect, there were things which I know recognise but didn't realise the significance of at the time. I started suspecting around 2.5, got under pediatrician at 3, diagnosed just before 5.

DC2 I was half expecting to see signs (due to genetic high probability), so quite vigilant about noticing anything, but they were actually a very typical, easy baby. They didn't show any signs at all until 2.5, and are currently on the the assesment pathway at 5.

Whilst they're both autistic, their development and presentation of traits is completely different (boy/girl). One of then could have been identified at 1, the other probably couldn't.

worriedmumsy · 23/08/2024 10:42

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Hi @Mumof3bb1 @Chzm
Sorry I didn't see these notifications until now. I hope my update isn't too long for you both, where are you both on your journey? Xxxx

Ds will be 3 next month. He is still non verbal and very sensitive to noises and sensory.
I started him at nursery in April to help his social skills and anxiety. He works best with routine and patterns and it helps reduce anxiety

He responds to his name now and is much better at listening but he still doesn't point or wave. He will now occasionally clap 1 or 2 times independently but won't repeat if you ask him

It is very hard to find things that motivate ds but if you do it becomes obsessive (right now it's being picked up then throwing himself back) he loves rough and tumble play
He has recently (last 4 weeks) started babbling more but it's more noises than baby babble. Over the year I have heard the odd 'mum' or dogs name when I'm in another room. It's not on demand and doesn't roll off his tongue but gives me hope he will one day be able

He communicates very well if you are listening/watching out for it. He doesn't have the words so will pull me/dad to where he wants us
He is extremely independent and passive. He takes himself away to have time on his own in other rooms

He's recently been discharged from Speech & Language Therapy - they were absolutely amazing
We’ve been to paediatrics for autism assessment but he is still too young to tell. They have given him a Global Developmental Delay diagnosis and will reassess between now and aged 8

Hope this helps xxx

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MissHavershamReturns · 23/08/2024 21:13

Op I’ve thought of you a lot when I’ve seen these queries on the thread you started. Lovely to hear from you and it sounds like you have done amazingly in getting help for your l.o. How fantastic that speech and language were so good with him and it sounds like you are giving him a lovely happy home. If you haven’t yet applied for an EHCP for him I would strongly consider doing so. It might seem early but they take a long time to come through. I REALLY wish I had done that for my son at age 3! All the very best to you and it’s good to hear how things are going.

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MissHavershamReturns · 23/08/2024 21:13

That was @worriedmumsy

Mamma283828 · 23/08/2024 21:29

Ah didn't realise it was an old post. Edited to remove.

Allie47 · 23/08/2024 21:43

My DS is high functioning and will live independently and get a job etc but I knew in his first weeks. He wasn't diagnosed until 5 but I always knew he would be 💐

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