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Being a Mum (warning, may cause tearfulness!)

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mollipops · 08/11/2002 06:50

Found this and it bought a tear to my eye. Hope you enjoy it too.

Before I was a Mum I made and ate hot meals.
I had unstained clothing, I had quiet conversations on the phone.
Before I was a Mum I slept as late as I wanted
And never worried about how late I got into bed.
I brushed my hair and teeth everyday.
Before I was a Mum I cleaned my house each day.
I never tripped over toys or forgot the words to lullabies.
Before I was a Mum I didn?t worry whether or not plants were poisonous.
I never thought about immunisations.
Before I was a Mum I had never been puked on, pooped on, spit on,
chewed on, peed on, or pinched by tiny fingers.
Before I was a Mum I had complete control over my mind,
my thoughts, my body and I slept all night.
Before I was a Mum I never held down a screaming child
so that doctors could do tests or give shots.
I never looked into teary eyes and cried.
I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.
I never sat up late hours at night watching a sleeping baby.
Before I was a Mum I never held a sleeping baby
just because I didn?t want to put it down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn?t stop the hurt.
I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much.
I never knew that I could love being a Mum.
Before I was a Mum I didn?t know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn?t know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.
I didn?t know the special bond between a Mother and her child.
I didn?t know that something so small could make me feel so important.
Before I was a Mum I had never gotten up in the middle
of the night every ten minutes to make sure all was okay.
I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache,
the wonderful fulfillment, or the satisfaction of being a Mum.
I didn?t know I was capable of feeling so much
Before I was a Mum.

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batey · 08/11/2002 07:28

Blub!!

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Bron · 08/11/2002 09:58

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sobernow · 08/11/2002 11:25

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agaazaa · 08/11/2002 12:04

Gulp....

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Nutjob · 09/11/2002 13:51

Sniff, sob.......!!

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Janeway · 09/11/2002 19:23

can hardly see to type.....

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Azzie · 10/11/2002 06:31

"Before I was a Mum I didn?t know the feeling of having my heart outside my body."

So true.

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Girly · 10/11/2002 09:13

just dripped tears all over the keyboard!

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Deborahf · 10/11/2002 11:28

Just read this to my dh through a blur of tears - it's lovely and so true.

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SimonHoward · 11/11/2002 14:15

Not afraid to say that the vision misted over a bit here.

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chiara71 · 11/11/2002 14:21

I did not even get halfway through.
I guess it says everything

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Tissy · 14/11/2002 13:46

I am not generally a sentimental person, but this morning felt a lump in my throat when dd smiled up at me through a face covered in snot, an eye stuck closed and a crispy green moustache! What a brave little soldier!!

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Bozza · 14/11/2002 14:10

I'm at work so I daren't read it through again. Already misty eyed.

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