Hoping someone can offer some advice. Ds2 is 2. He's been settled in his room for well over a year or so, no issues. Approximately 3 months ago, he started to wake in the night upset, we could usually get him back to sleep but it became harder and harder and he became noticeably more distressed crying and shaking. I was pregnant at the time and DH made the decision to bring him in to our bed, he would fall asleep straight away which meant we could all rest as I really couldn't spend ages sat next to his bed once I became heavily pregnant. Since then he's gone to bed in his room but will wake after 1-2 hours very upset. we've tried asking what's wrong but he just said he doesn't like his bed. We made the assumption he had started to have nightmares (typical for this age). Baby is a month old now and it's becoming a bit of a struggle as I cannot move in our bed. DD has a side sleeper but thanks to c section I feed her laying down and with Ds in with us I am pretty uncomfortable and long term it's just not going to work. We'd decided that our two ds would share with bunk beds whilst we have the house converted so after they became excited about it we have gone ahead and put them in. New beds, new bedding, all made up as he wanted. We thought moving him out of his room and in with big bro might bring him comfort however it has made zero difference.
Has anyone any suggestions?