Ex on bail

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Ex has been charged with threatening behaviour and domestic abuse his bail conditions are hes not allowed to contact me, my mum or my new partner.

He dosent really see the kids regularly but always used them as an excuse to contact me to shout abuse and threats.
Obviously I'd rather he dosent see the kids at all but also understand that he has rights to see them.

Basically how would you go about co parenting or just take my chances he'll never take me to court for access

I would take my chances tbh.
Amd if he did I would and did insist on a contact centre.

He does NOT have rights to see the children though....why do people assume parents have 'rights'... they don't. Parents have RESPONSIBILITIES

as per the Childrens Act the 'rights' lie with the children

For gods sake protect your children, why would you want to encourage them to see a man that shoots abuse at you to the point that the police are involved?

I bet a penny to a pound that if you contact social services they will back you in saying that if HE wants to see the kids then HE needs to pay for a contact centre. Then suddenly he won't want to know and you can get on with your life.

Women seem to have this pre conceived notion that they must inflict the man they chose to breed with onto the children and is in the kids best interests. It's absolutely NOT TRUE. With men like this the kids are pretty much always better with just one god parent that puts THEM and THEIR needs first and not a man's "rights" that he neither cares about nor respects in others!

Said in my post I obviously don't want him seeing them.
I thought If he was on the birth certificate then he has rights unless a court takes them away?

If he took me to court wouldn't it look bad on me that I haven't let him see them?