A few weeks I got a letter through with an appointment for DD's 9-12month developmental review. There is a questionnaire to fill in before the appointment as well.
I've briefly gone through the questions in my head. So for fine and gross motor skills I can basically tick all the boxes.
But communication is lacking somewhat.
For the last few months all she has been interested in in crawling, pulling to stand, cruising across furniture and now wandering off with her walker. She isnt walking unaided yet but is very steady on her feet.
She can say mama and make noises but nothing that I would say are relatable sounds of letters.
Since reading the form Ive been really worried about the appointment.
For context, the last time I saw a HV was when DD was 4 weeks old.
I struggled breast feeding due to low supply and DD had an undiagnosed tongue tie.
HV told me I wasnt putting in enough effort with DD and needed to try harder. Then gave me a feeding plan which I was later told by a private midwife was dangerous and wasnt providing adequate nutrition.
I since made contact with HV centre as I had concerns over DD not taking to weaning well and was told to halve her milk intake to force her to eat. Which we didnt do for obvious reasons.
Each time Ive had any dealings with HV Ive felt awful and I now feel really anxious about this appointment. I feel like Ill be told again im not putting in the effort etc etc etc.
Im honestly trying so so hard with her and I think she is actually doing well otherwise.
Will HV do anything about the lack of babble from DD or is this more for monitoring?
What have others experienced?
Please calm my nerves.