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7 month old refusing bottle

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Daisymae55 · 09/10/2022 20:07

My dd (7 months on Wednesday) has always been a nightmare to feed. She’s always taken under what she should, but has gained weight steadily and hit milestones so hasn’t been a problem.

The last few days she’s been on an absolute feeding refusal. She started not taking bottles unless she was sleepy but now won’t do that, so we moved to sippy cups which worked but she wouldn’t take large feeds. Now she won’t go near those either unless they are filled with water. She’s on solids but isn’t really eating those either (fine with pouch in the morning but after that not interested - usually do a pouch in am and finger food in pm). She’s usually take about 900ml but now has dropped to 500. The solids haven’t affected her milk, in fact she increased her forumla when we started which was a lovely surprise (until the last few days obviously)

The weird thing is, other than the feeding, she’s totally normal. Wet and dirty nappies, very active (trying desperately to crawl, pivots around in endless circles on her tummy), chatty, smiley, giggly. Literally the same baby with no signs of illness/temperature, just won’t eat.

we have considered teething but we’ve thought she’s been teething for months and still no visible signs of teeth. Drooling and chewing everything but again she’s done that for months without affecting feeds

im just terrified because my parents are away and my husband is going away for 2 weeks on Wednesday so I’m terrified I’m going to be alone with a baby refusing to eat and what will happen. I’m already getting super stressed and feel panic attacky when she won’t eat.

we have also tried

  • different temperatures of milk
  • ready made formula and powdered formula
  • 3 types of bottle
  • different rooms
  • feeding in high chair
same formula with birth - no problems other than occasional phases where she’s tricky to feed unless tired (plays with bottle, gets easily distracted etc)

sorry for the rambling… just really worried and after advice/reassurance - husband thinks I’m overreacting as she’s acting fine but 500ml seems like nothing - barely over half her usual amount! I am contacting dr/health visitor when open tomorrow cos I’m sick with worry but just wondered if anyone had experienced anything similar/has any advice.

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redandwhite1 · 11/10/2022 00:10

No advice but my LG is the same

She's 8 months and has less than 400ml per day, I just have to keep her food intake up instead

OrlaOrka · 11/10/2022 12:58

Are you sure she doesn’t have a sore throat/ears? It may be worth a GP check to be sure! My little boy did this twice, it demented me because like yours he barely took enough to be begin with! The first time he did it I had no idea what was wrong because he didn’t seem unwell at all but I took him to the GP and he needed antibiotics for a throat and ear infection! Once he was better he went back to normal, and then the second time he started refusing bottles I knew to bring him to the GP and the same thing!

I feel for you because it causes a lot of anxiety and you start to dread every feed. The only way we got milk into him during these times was by making sure he was fast asleep, whipping his dummy out and putting the bottle in and keep alternating the dummy and bottle everytime he started to get upset!

redandwhite1 · 11/10/2022 15:26

Would it last months? (Has in my case - I'd feel silly going to the dr now?)

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OrlaOrka · 11/10/2022 16:39

@redandwhite1 i don’t know about months really! I wouldn’t think so, I think it’s more if it’s a sudden change I would bring to GP. Does yours have a bottle aversion maybe? Altho at 8 months if your baby is good to eat I wouldn’t mind so much with the milk, if you are getting 400mls in then I’d just make porridge with some formula too for breakfast and that counts too!

redandwhite1 · 11/10/2022 17:57

Yeah giving her 3 meals and ensuring she has plenty of dairy 😊

Twizbe · 11/10/2022 18:04

Could be that she is naturally dropping her milk now that she's having solids.

Feel free to give her a multi vitamin and some yoghurt to count as more dairy.

She sounds well, just not massively hungry. Is she on the move yet? This might all change when she starts moving and using more energy

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