When I married my husband my in laws constantly spoke about having grandchildren. They have 2 other children that are infertile but luckily my husband and I are highly fertile so conceiving wasnt an issue for us. We have 2 children now but we rarely hear from our in laws in regards to them. It is always me making plans to go out as a family, and if we ever need help there is always a problem or reason why they cant. My son recently became ill and when I messaged them they never even asked how he was. Their life seems to revolve around their 2 other children and we are left to just get on with it. I feel like when they do see us its only for social media, because if i ever write a post regarding our children the comments they put are frankly sickening to me. All this love on a status, yet hardly a call asking how they are. Bit sick of it.