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3 year old son misbehaving

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leahkanesmam · 05/10/2022 13:24

Hi ladies hope you are all well I'm Leah, mammy to 3 year old Kane.

He started nursery on the 9th September. He's been with his childminder since he was 7 months old and she is brilliant with him. He has thrived since he has started with her. However, nearly everyday now since he started nursery she is having troubles with him. He is spitting his food and juice out and wiping it on other children, he looks to wreck games rather than join in and play and the other kids don't want him included - which is understandable. I don't want my son to be disliked and left out but he seems to be looking for trouble and is thriving off negativity. He isn't like this at home he just loves to sit and play and watch he tele, he loves being around family and is deep down a lovely little boy. I am no longer with his dad but from my understanding and knowing what his dad is like.. he would act to encourage the negative behavior as he finds things like that funny.. he also has another child on the way with a poor soul so he probably won't see him as much which is probably a good thing! Everybody needs to be on the same page with these situations.

Do you's have any suggestions? It's getting me upset I don't want to be known as the horrible kids mam. When he really isn't horrible :( x

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SleepingStandingUp · 05/10/2022 13:26

What do nursery say about his behaviour?

It could just be a change in his routine. He's gone from childminder all day to childminder, nursery, childminder? He might also be more tired - more travelling, more structured active play at nursery if he normally sits and plays / watching TV?

leahkanesmam · 05/10/2022 13:30

@SleepingStandingUp thank you for the reply. When I have picked him up from nursery they have always said he has been fine while there but he hasn't been with the childminder. Yeah, he is very set on routine! I get what you are saying. His childminder has told me to provide a communication book where everyone writes his daily activities what he likes doing, what he doesn't etc.. see how that works with him

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