Hi I had a little girl around 12 weeks ago. It's not been a smooth ride as she had an allergy that went misdiagnosed until 6 weeks but she has finally started to settle! I stay at home whilst my partner goes to work but when he comes home I still have my LO 90% of the time! I do all of the night feeds including when he isn't at work (he has done one night with her and that's due to me forcing him as i was exhausted in the beginning. She has now started sleeping a lot better only really waking for 1 or 2 feeds between going to bed at 8:30 and getting up at around 7:00. I do the feeds and also get up with her even on weekends he has lay ins... I'm starting to resent this as I feel one day of the weekend he could either do the feeds or get up with her in the morning to allow me a lay in. He has another daughter and when she is here (50% of the time) I am left to do everything also as he says she is his priority so 80% of his time is spent with her! He does no chores other than put the bins out or cook dinner a couple of times a week and it's starting to make me feel like a maid and a single mum. I have tried talking to him but he just shoots me down and makes me feel like I am in the wrong for even suggesting it! What can I do, I am at my wits end with it all?