Just a bit of a rant really and wondering if anyone else has experienced this/has any words of wisdom!
obviously I’m massively biased but DD6 is lovely. She really is lovely and very kindhearted. A couple of girls she is “friends” with however are what I can only describe as bitchy. One minute they’re best pals and the next minute without warning they’re doing everything they can to put her down/generally be a bit horrible. I’ve seen them do this to other girls before and wasn’t keen but for context there was a bit of history between them of not getting along, I had hoped this was the reason for their bitchy comments but I think actually it’s just their usual behaviour. DD however has done absolutely nothing to warrant this kind of treatment. She’s terrified of upsetting them and thus sparking either nasty treatment or a ridiculously dramatic reaction from them (these girls are both massive drama queens who will have hysterical crying fits over literally anything that doesn’t go their way. They don’t like their shoes etc, the kind of thing I would expect from a toddler rather than kids who have done a couple of years of school. Genuinely the first time I witnessed this I thought one of the girls had broken their arm etc the way they were wailing so hysterically. It took a few minutes of confusion to ascertain it was because they had to go home)
Anyway why do little girls do this? Suddenly decide to drop friends who have been nothing but lovely to them and then shit on them for no apparent reason? And what do you do when your little girl is on the receiving end and is completely unsure of what on earth she did to deserve this?
oh - and how do you stop yourself from letting their mum know you’re really pissed off with the spoilt, horrible little cows they’re raising?