What do you tell your children when it comes to them believing make believe. For example DC 4 is currently into superhero’s and Spider-Man and asks things like when can she be Spider-Man and how old is he and where does he live etc. It feels better to go with the truth ie. Spider-Man is a made up character but then I wonder where do you draw the line? The other thing is the spider man obsession has been very useful with behaviour and food, because obviously spidey loves vegetables and is really helpful and kind to his mum, and whenever she gets nervous she asks if spidey would do it or like it and then she has a go because he would. She’s at that age where she is asking a million questions a day so the brush off doesn’t work but I feel I need to pick a route and stick with it. (Except for Santa because he’s real until she tells me he isn’t!)