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Help! Still using tommee tippee bottles

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cstx89 · 30/09/2022 23:29

My twin boys are still using tommee tippee bottles for their milk at night. Its a comfort thing for them I am assuming.

I have tried every type of cup/beaker going and they just refuse.

Anyone came across something similar to the tommee tippee bottles?

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mistopheles · 30/09/2022 23:35

Why is this a problem? How old are they? If they find it soothing just at night I wouldn't worry too much.

Confusion101 · 30/09/2022 23:35

Why don't you want them using them?
Sorry I don't know of a good replacement

cstx89 · 30/09/2022 23:46

They have just turned 3 years old. I thought the bottles should be away by now?

I think they like the soft teat?!

Its causing me so much stress.

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WashableVelvet · 30/09/2022 23:48

If they brush teeth afterwards, I wouldn’t stress too much about it.

cstx89 · 30/09/2022 23:55

Thank you for the comments. I always feel gulity about it. I tried new cups last night and again tonight but they were so unhappy.

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FarmhouseLiving22 · 30/09/2022 23:59

I had a bottle until I was at school in reception! I always had mine downstairs then went up and brushed me teeth afterwards. If my daughter had taken a bottle I'd have let her have it for as long as she wanted it!

Gemstar2 · 01/10/2022 00:12

I totally get your guilt because my DC used them until 2 and because you’re “supposed” to stop much earlier it ate me up. I bought several kinds of cup and all got rejected, often with messy milk spills!

In the end we just gradually reduced the milk (literally 5 mls every couple of days) until DC no longer had milk before bed - at 3 they prob get enough dairy from their diet that they don’t need milk at night time any more. Then, involving DC, threw the bottles away so there was never a temptation to go back…occasionally DC wants milk in the evening so just has it out of a normal plastic beaker, as they quickly understood it was that or nothing. I genuinely thought that would cause lots of angst but it didn’t, after a few days it was the new normal… and then I felt daft for not doing it sooner!

But I agree with pp, if you brush teeth afterwards and it works for you, give yourself a break and forget about it. I’ve never met an adult drinking out of a tommee tippee bottle so I’m sure they’ll grow out of them eventually!

cstx89 · 01/10/2022 06:40

Thank you for everyone kind comments. I really appreciate it and might start to look to reduce the milk.

Oh mum life and mum guilt is hard! Lol Smile

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wibblewobbleball · 01/10/2022 06:42

Gemstar2 · 01/10/2022 00:12

I totally get your guilt because my DC used them until 2 and because you’re “supposed” to stop much earlier it ate me up. I bought several kinds of cup and all got rejected, often with messy milk spills!

In the end we just gradually reduced the milk (literally 5 mls every couple of days) until DC no longer had milk before bed - at 3 they prob get enough dairy from their diet that they don’t need milk at night time any more. Then, involving DC, threw the bottles away so there was never a temptation to go back…occasionally DC wants milk in the evening so just has it out of a normal plastic beaker, as they quickly understood it was that or nothing. I genuinely thought that would cause lots of angst but it didn’t, after a few days it was the new normal… and then I felt daft for not doing it sooner!

But I agree with pp, if you brush teeth afterwards and it works for you, give yourself a break and forget about it. I’ve never met an adult drinking out of a tommee tippee bottle so I’m sure they’ll grow out of them eventually!

Agree with everything here, great approach to reducing milk and agree don't stress!!

saywhatwhatnow · 01/10/2022 06:46

Mine never took a cup. I just stopped giving him a bottle at 3, offered a cup (which he never took) and he stopped having milk at bedtime. I made sure he had plenty of dairy in the day. It coincided with him being dry at night so wasn't a bad thing really.

saywhatwhatnow · 01/10/2022 06:47

However I agree with pp that if you're happy giving them bottles then just carry on. They won't be 12 and having a bottle at bedtime.

SunshineClouds1 · 01/10/2022 09:48

I just didn't give my child a bottle one night and he didn't miss it tbh.

If your happy for them to have it then it's fine. I wouldn't stress.

Thegingerpig · 01/10/2022 13:54

My 2 sons still had a bottle of milk at night aged 3. The wouldn't take it out of anything else, despite drinking water out of a cup all day. Eventually I took the milk away altogether and gave a small banana instead. They're still eating fruit before bed at 9 and 11!

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