Our baby is 10 weeks old and not in any set routine
I love routine and look forward to when she is but I feel I started too young with my first and failed so trying to be more relaxed this time!
But as she approaches 12 weeks plus should I be looking at some sort of routine?
What is normal for this age - feed sleep and nap wise ? It's been 11 years since my last! So be nice to speak to people with babies around this age to see if I can get any tips
Here's what we do -
She drinks 50z roughly every 4hrs - I kind of feed on demand so sometimes there's hunger cues at 3hrs or if I'm school run I'll make it 3hrs or time it for 4hrs when we are home but without clockwatching, I rarely let her go longer than 4.5 hrs so say if she hasn't hunger cued by 4.5 hrs I'd feed - but this is rare she would
Do that - she doesn't sleep long period either
Purely because she doesn't sleep well/go long stretches at night so making sure she has enough milk in the day
We do bath her everyday just for a few mins so she's used to it, plus she seems to like it but as she's in no set routine it's just worked around awake windows and feeds naps etc which can vary so usually around 5ish.
We do (DH) homework with eldest one at 3:45- 5 then she goes off for a bath until 6pm until we eat dinner which is around 6ish, finished by 7 pm where eldest will then have time in her room 7pm bedtime which is 9pm so my eldest has a nice routine I feel- baby just fits in around so if she's asleep when dinners being cooked or when it's ready - fab we all get to eat dinner together! If she's awake we put her in the rocker chair or if she's crying/unsettled then we take it in turns to hold her / eat but we try have family time altogether for one hour an eve 6-7pm
Every day is different with her
Anyway the issues we have
- possible reflux - quite sicky and unsettled after feeds
- cries a lot on and off - seems unsettled unsure if milk/colic/ in contact with GP HV and have a dietician referral next week
(She's been unsettled since 2 weeks old)
- doesn't sleep at night soundly ! Grunts groans farts thrashes around hitting her face - it seems like it goes on all night so we are exhausted
So with all the issues it's hard to try get her into a routine
I'm not so much fussed on routine at 10 wks more so when should we be thinking of doing so
Nap times - awake windows last from 45mins to 1hr 30 and she naps anything from 30mins-1.5-2hrs again no pattern but usually no longer than 2hrs at a time
I just want to know if I'm doing the right thing by her - hard to know if I'm doing the right thing as my first was 11 yrs ago so almost feel like first timer
Thank you for reading x