Hi,
writing this out of desperation at 5am.
our baby boy (4 months old) seems to be in so much pain. He wakes up screeching and crying and rolling around to get trapped wind out that seems to be stopping him from getting any kind of decent sleep. He arches his back in the crib, kicks his legs frantically and let’s out the most awful cry that breaks my heart. I’d say for the last week or so he’s been waking like this. I had sacked off the bedside crib and ended up co-sleeping which improved marginally but now even that isn’t working.
We’ve been on Omeprazole since approx. 4 weeks for reflux - does anyone have any experience of this causing tummy discomfort? It’s so hard to know what it is but definitely wind, perhaps stomachache / bloating but the wind seems to be the biggest problem; as once he wakes up he wriggles about a bit to let it out and seems eased but ten / 15 mins later will wake again. I give him tummy massages, bicycle legs etc put it doesn’t seem to work.
we’ve just completed a trial of no cow’s milk to see if possible CMPA - to be honest we noticed absolutely no difference during the trial but it’s definitely been a lot worse in the last two days since I’ve been back on cow’s milk.
our GP is lovely but to be honest a tad useless - they won’t see him in person and the response is to just increase the Omeprazole dosage but that doesn’t sit well with me and I’m feeling concerned that he’s been pumped full of medication for 3 months of his life already that I’m not positive is even making any difference. He’s already on a 20mg tablet - the highest dosage for his weight (7.3kg). He still sicks up a bit but not after every feed like he used to. It’s so hard to know what is a ‘normal’ amount.
he is breastfed most of the time but has 1 bottle of formula a day that my partner gives in the morning so I can get an hour or two’s sleep and to mask the taste of the Omeprazole (we’ve tried in breast milk / gripe water but it didn’t seem to disguise it and if given straight he just spat it out). While on our cow’s milk free trial we were prescribed a hypoallergenic formula that smelt absolutely rotten (like dry dog food!). Baby hated it and would push the bottle away and cry when we tried to give it to him. Formula was the only thing we could manage to get his Omeprazole down but while on the cows milk free trial we struggled giving him his meds as he would literally just spit it out any other way or refuse the bottle. Friends did suggest putting vanilla extract / nesquik in to mask the taste of the hypoallergenic formula but I’m not sold on the idea!
sorry a bit of a long post but I guess I’m after a sounding board for advice other than our GP…it’s hard to know what is causing it, whether it’s CMPA or side effects of the Omeprazole, as we re introduced both at the same time as he wouldn’t take his meds during the trial. My thoughts are to drop the Omeprazole if it’s not making much of a difference and see if that helps? And if not to go back into no cows milk but perhaps with a different formula. I’ve seen SMA do a soya one for cows milk intolerances - has anyone used this?
it seems to be really bad at night because he is laying on his back - during the day he tends to just sleep on me on his front which doesn’t seem to cause him much discomfort: I know we can’t go on like this forever and something needs to change but he’s still young and I feel so guilty.
my partner insists we just put him in his own room as we’re getting zero sleep but im not comfortable with that and I hate the thought of him being alone and in pain.
I want to help him so much but I can’t see the wood for the trees at the moment. Any thoughts / advice / past experiences of this would be hugely appreciated x