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Sleeping/baby noises

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ChantelleSCC · 19/09/2022 23:48

My partner and I have a 9 month old together and he has a 9 year old from previous.

My 9 month old is becoming very vocal in the mornings and I’m talking making loud noises at 6:30-7:30am and my partner has a flat with two bedrooms so not the biggest of spaces.

He thinks and expects me to Leave his flat with our child at 6:30am to go anywhere but be there so
9 year old can sleep I understand they need sleep but again its not our child’s fault and he would rather leave me to struggle to entertain than help at all. It is yet to wake the child up also.

What would or do you guys do? Do you think he’s right for expecting me to leave at 6:30 in the morning?

Everyone knows including him what a baby does and will do.

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Nat888 · 20/09/2022 00:07

I... honestly if my partner told me to leave the house at 6.30am with the baby I would... and I would never return.
That's pretty fucking cheeky.

Iheartmykyndle · 20/09/2022 07:43

Tell him to take his baby out if it bothers him that much.

GiantTortoise · 20/09/2022 07:44

Wtf? I can't believe what I've just read!

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Merryclaire · 20/09/2022 07:52

How unbelievably selfish! I would tell him to get some ear plugs and a reality check. This would be a real red flag for me.

chillichutneysarnie · 20/09/2022 07:53

Tell him to get the 9 year old some ear plugs! Cheeky git

Karamna · 20/09/2022 09:35

If HE wants HIS baby to be out of the house then HE needs to take her out.

PacificOcean · 20/09/2022 09:51

Tell him to ask his friends and colleagues who have two kids whether any of them asked their partner to do this when their younger child was a baby. Bet him a large sum of money that he won't be able to find a single person who says yes.

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ChantelleSCC · 20/09/2022 11:00

I’ve posted this exact thing on several different Facebook groups and here all to share the response with him ofcourse to keep everyone’s name private and blocked out.. I also was going to find somewhere to ask dads. Because I knew he was wrong you sometimes just need a little back up! He went out with his cousin last night while I wasn’t there to talk about life I bet any money he didn’t say he was trying to get us out at 6:30 in the morning to him to get advice.

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whatiszzz · 20/09/2022 12:20

What a joke - no don’t take your baby out. If it bothers him that much he can go out. Or you take your baby and don’t return. Fucking cheek.

LegoFiends · 20/09/2022 12:21

White noise for the nine year old might help. Otherwise perhaps the 9 year old needs to be in bed a bit earlier.

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