So my LG is 7 months old and I have a stepdaughter (8yo) who lives 3 days a week with us. I love her to bits but her behaviour lately is getting to me.
When she tries to engage with the baby, she keeps shaking her (in a playful way tbf) but she does it too vigorously and the baby has fallen on her back and hit her head a couple of times. When she also plays peekaboo she does it too loudly and sudden so my baby gets scared and again if she's standing which she has only learnt to do recently she has lost balance and hurt herself. I have told my SD time and time again to play gently and to leave baby to roam freely (she can crawl so is mobile enough).
This morning happened again and honestly I lost it a little bit. My husband was also pretty upset with his daughter as she doesn't seem to listen. I do think she is having a hard time adjusting and we do try to spend some good quality time as a family and with her alone but this is getting to me and I'm starting to resent her a little bit.
Any tips or anyone who can sympathise?