So I co parent and I have been made aware that the ex is not going to have a permanent home. My concern he wants to keep having the children but it will be either at his brothers house or at his gfs house depending on who's house he is at,at the time. This in its self is not the issue. What is is that they will not have beds so will sleep on I don't know what. And possibly expected to share rooms with different sex children even though my children are through puberty. I just don't agree with that. Am I being too picky? The children have been told and all seem fine with the idea. Should I just stay quiet or wait and see I feel really stuck with my emotions about it all. I'm worried the children will get unsettled or anxious. I am worried that if i let them stay over im being a bad mum, but equally if i say no they have to come home at night so they have a bed to sleep on i am being just as bad because they like and enjoy spending time with their dad. What are your thoughts.