I've been battling with this issue ever since becoming a mum! I've never been part of huge groups of friends and always had a few select friends and I was happy with that. Although even since I've had my kids those have sort of disappeared too (lack of time, moved away etc...) I've made a few mom friends but we just meet up for the kids to hang out and they seem to have huge friend groups and are always busy..but even though I know that I'm not like that I feel myself wanting...i just feel like one minute I'm up and the next I'm down, it's an internal battle and I just don't know what to do...sorry for the long-ish post but I guess I just felt like venting 