Me and my partner have a 4 month old surprise baby at 21 years old. We are living at his family home with my family very close by. However I find myself doing absolutely everything for our baby except for a couple of hours when partner takes over to allow me to nap. I’m really struggling with having to do everything as well as constantly ask him to do things to help like the washing up and cooking, particularly as baby doesn’t sleep much during the day and needs constant entertainment and feeding! He just sits upstairs playing Video games all day (waiting for uni to start in Sept) or saying how tired he is and wants to nap (whilst he sleeps through the night in a different room as I’m exclusively breastfeeding). I can’t help but feel I’d be happier in my family home without having to feel annoyed that he’s sitting around being lazy.
I know it was a shock for both of us to become parents and he may be too immature for it at the moment but I’ve talked to him so many times about helping me and me feeling overwhelmed but the same thing keeps happening over and over.
any advice as to whether to stick it out or move back home? Thanks