Not apologising to dd

[Redscarforyellow]

Hi all I am possibly overthinking. But I have a little girl who just turned 1. My DH and I are going through some financial / work stress at the moment, DD isn't a great sleeper no family help so it's been stressful lately. This morning he asked my DD to calm the f* down when we were having quite a heated conversation about finances. He didn't shout it at her but was rather stern. Dd didn't understand of course, she was winging at the time.

Later he calmed down and I asked her to apologise to her.he said he didn't want to. But he hugged her cuddled her. I found it odd that he didn't want to just say sorry. Am I overthinking this?

@Duttercup thank you
, for some reason since I started in mumsnet, I get more critical of everything, of myself, of our relationship. I think I need to maybe take a step back a bit.

Make all the clarifications you like but he was swearing at a baby, the fact you wanted him to apologise shows that you also thought he was in the wrong.
Now you're implying that it wasn't so bad because he didn't swear in her face 🙄 @Redscarforyellow bit of a pointless post, he swore at a baby, you wanted him to apologise, asked mn for their opinions, didn't like the replies so now you're trying to justify his swearing at a baby 😂
And that's why I love MN! Crackers

@Campervangirl I think you are projecting. I clarified to you because one poster thought I was OTT and this was not a issue post my clarification on the thread. I had already said thank you for the comments I got, I had also wanted opinions as to whether I am over thinking. Some posters said yes, some posters said it's not great etc, so different opinions. Your latest post seem to be attacking me for no reason.

@Campervangirl your post made me chuckle too. You do you.

You do you too 😂
Are we done now, it's too hot to argue 😉
I wish you and your family well ❤️