Just wondering if how I am feeling is normal. Married with a 10 month old dd. Always had a very active sex life but since having dd I am finding sex a bit of a chore and would rather sleep instead. I feel terribly guilty about it all and worry it could be detrimental to our marriage. We do still have sex a couple of times a week, but husband wants it more but I turn it down because I feel so bloody exhausted. I feel like I'm stuck in a bit of a rut.