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Disabled parents I need your help

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HerRoyalHappiness · 07/07/2022 20:15

How on earth do I show my kids how much I appreciate then without constantly telling them and getting on their nerves and not spending a lot of money because I'm a single mum to 3 on benefits.

Today I've woken up in more excruciating pain than usual. I think my steroid jab has worn off. It's about time for it to.
So today the DC have been amazing.
DS1(13) has had his own struggles recently but he has helped so much today. Did reading books with his siblings, washed the pots, cleaned all the cat litters, been to the shop, cooked our evening meal (was only chicken nuggets and chips with peas but still) and put away all of the washing.
DD(8) has picked up everything off the floor which was dropped, brought me my meds (all sorted in pill organisers) and got me water and put all of the recycling in the bins.
DS2(6) has done the dusting, loaded a wash with supervision and turned on the washing machine and tidied the shoes up on the shoe rack.

They're amazing kids and I want to show them that but it's hard to do when you're skint and they just roll their eyes at you when you thank them and tell you not to be silly!

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Jalisco · 07/07/2022 20:22

Check out local charities on line. Many places have special funds that help families in your situation to have a holiday. Travel etc is usually included - some may also provide some spending money.

HerRoyalHappiness · 07/07/2022 20:24

That would be amazing. I've not been on holiday since I was a child. DS1 and DD have been with my mum separately (DS2s turn once he stops night wetting)

I'll have a look. We could definitely all do with getting away for a bit, even if it's just a weekend in Blackpool at this point!

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Woolandwonder · 07/07/2022 20:25

If you Google young carers + your area hopefully something will come up. I think it shows a lot of appreciation just acknowledging that they have to help more than other kids might and making sure they have any support they might need.

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Notgotanyidea · 07/07/2022 20:31

As a child of a disabled parent, just knowing that you are appreciated is enough sometimes. It was very much expected that it was “my job” to do so much from a very young age with no recognition or thanks ever. Young Carers groups seem like a real positive for everyone.

HerRoyalHappiness · 07/07/2022 20:31

Thank you. I will do. I wish they understood how proud i am of them. But they just see it as normal having to help mummy so much.

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