@K2012
Fennel is common tea now a days. Tesco have it, pukka do a tasty one. Fenugreek is a pollen like herb/spice. Maybe in larger supermarkets. I got mine from a international supermarket.
Fenugreek is not as nice tbh but I boil up a tablespoon for 5 mins, strain into a mug and add honey. Can add another strong tea to take mask the taste. Something like fennel or licorice would work well with it.
A good latch is tricky!! I spent the first 6 weeks in toe curling pain and it felt like someone rubbing broken glass into my nipples!! But once both baby and me got it, it all just clicked and now she's 5 months, I'm actually starting to enjoy it! I couldn't tell you exactly what it was that clicked or how...it just did!
Weather you want to try latching again or not I would still recommend you get some kind of support - or even better, lots of support!
100% try an inperson breastfeeding support group. I've had really lovely experiences and you don't actually have to feed if you don't want to - just a cuppa and a chat is equally as useful sometimes. They will have great suggestions on supply and pumping/expressing.
www.laleche.org.uk/
La Leche League (LLL) do great free session over zoom and some in person groups too. I live in Bristol but joined a group held in Scotland! It was great and welcoming and was available when I needed it. Really doesn't matter which you join. They have great resources on their website but is quite difficult to read through imo.
Kellymom is an American site but has really good, clear info.
The breastfeeding network phone line is great too!
Good luck with feeding, and remember every mother know exactly how difficult it is! You can see by all the amazing replies to this post how willing everyone is to share experiences and wisdom, as we've all been there in our own ways, so don't be out off joining a group!