After finding old pregnancy notes I seen the c section info leaflet which mentioned c section babies are more likely to have asthma and can be more likely to be overweight
after Googling this apparently it’s backed up by a study but I didnt know this
i had a planned c section as I have anxiety and depression and was seriously worried about trying a vaginal birth and poteinally going through trauma and then getting PND. I have not heard anyone tell me a positive birth story so I just instantly assumed I’d have trauma and I panicked so midwife and me decided an ELCS would be best and it was the best experience and so positive I’m grateful everyday for my experience
but now I feel horrendous guilt. I had an eating disorder when I was younger and I still suffer with body image issues now and the thought that I’ve made my child more likely to be overweight and then he could suffer with these thoughts etc makes me feel sick and like a terrible mother and that I should’ve just got on with a vaginal birth as I’d get over the trauma
if he gets sn eating disorder when he’s older because of this he won’t get over it you just live with it daily
i feel so guilty has anyone had c section babies and have they become overweight when they’re older?
PS I feel guilty because I elected for this. I wouldn’t feel guilty if it was emergency. My guilt is more because I thought this was the best choice and maybe it wasn’t