I had two quite close together who are 2 and 4, and always wanted 3. Though I feel like it’s so much more of decision with the third, as it feels bit unnecessary, and also have the knowledge of how hard baby and toddler years are. Because of having two close together was so hard and took the joy out of it a bit, I would wait a bit till older two have 30 hours free childcare. I didn’t want too much of an age gap though. Still feel like it’s a heart over head decision though, as financially it makes sense to stop at two, I also have a boy and girl, but something in me wanted more children but not too many.doubt I’d want a fourth.
i wanted to see if those who had that third kid think it was the best decision, obviously no one regrets a child, but if you were reincarnated, would you stick with two?