Hello everyone i was wondering if i can have some advice please.
Basically my son has a close friend at school but this friend keeps me saying to my son that 'your mum is a liar' my son has come home a few times now and said it to me and i actually find it quite rude as no one else has ever said that to me at the school before and seems abit harsh! My son asked me last week what year he is in school as he wasn't sure (he has special needs) and i told him he has then told his friend at school who told him 'your mum is a liar and that's not true' i had to then prove it to my son by showing him his school report, his friend often says this about me about other things which are also true and he keeps saying its not. We are doing a get together at the park next week with another child from class and again this boy told my son that the other child doesn't want to do a get together with us! I have already messaged the mum 2 months ago about a similar situation and she said she will have a chat with him etc but i was told by a friend to talk to her again but i dont feel comfortable doing it again. The issue is my son now has been calling me a liar aswell which i dont like i have told him its a un kind thing to say to people and i would of prefered it if his friend just said to my son 'i think your mum made a mistake' (even though i havent) but he does often call me a liar my son is now realising its not a nice thing to say about his mum. We are also not sure what has caused this, we took this boy out pizza hut and bowling 2 years ago that we paid for and also had him over for a play with my son in that year and they haven't ever had my son over ever since or make excuses when we try to arrange to play dates so i dont ask anymore but we haven't done anything wrong which is a shame as both kids get on very well just wondering what would you do in this situation i have also emailed his teacher last week but had no reply. The only other option is the assistant head who does normally reply.