What is the etiquette regarding present giving at small expensive parties?

[ThreeBluecubs]

Until now, DS's party invites have been to parties of 15-20 children and we have given presents costing about £7. The parties have tended to be in homes, halls or party venues.

DS has been invited to a party next month where he will be taken to the cinema and then to a chinese restaurant. Only a few children are going. Can I presume that when this begins to happen (he is approaching 7) that parents start to buy more expensive presents? Is this what usually happens?

No! IMHO you buy the same as if it was a normal party. The child has not been invited because of the gift, its because the birthday child wanted them there!

no same amount spent for all parties unless they are a special best friend then I spend a bit more

No, I spend a fiver every time. No more. It would get silly otherwise.

spend what you would normally spend. The parents have made the decision to have the more expensive party, that's at their cost, not yours.

we are hosting a cinema then chinese buffet party next sat for DS who is 8. I certainly will not be expecting more expensive presents, or any present for that matter, if DS's friends give hoim a present that is fine, but one not expected.

I usualluy spend £5 -7 on party presents, maybe a bit more if a particular friend whose interests I know well. I do try to stock up in sales, special offers though

Thanks everyone.

I would never have contemplated that different parties would require different ranks of presents. Just buy what you normally would.