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Can you have sensory issues without autism?

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Working9to5ish · 24/05/2022 19:36

My son is increasingly struggling with sensory issues. He's 7 and recently has been saying he can't focus in school cos of the noise, scratchy pencils etc. He is very slow to finish work because of this.

He's also got sensory issues around food and quite a limited diet - that said he will try new things. He hates mushy stuff like mash potatoes and stews.

He can be repetitive- he asks a lot of, "who's more famous" questions. When he was a toddler he was obsessed with opening and shutting doors.

He also regulates himself by moving and dancing - eg if he's playing the tablet he takes breaks by having a dance in the garden.

But as far as I can see he doesn't have any other ASD signs. He doesn't have meltdowns (or tantrums either, he's quite easy going). School have never been worried either though note anxiety and being very sensitive. He's never had any social problems, there's always been a lot of back and forth with him, he asks a lot of relevant questions and can hold and instigate a conversation on a wide variety of topics, he gets sarcasm and jokes (and likes playing jokes), he met his milestones on time in terms of communication and gross motor skills. He's easygoing with changes and transitions too. There's no history of ASD in our families (diagnosed anyway).

I'm going to visit the GP and ask for him to be putting on the waiting list for assessment, I know it will take ages.

I guess what I'm asking is can you have sensory issues without autism? School have given him ear defenders to help and we've got a pair for home as well cos he has a toddler brother who is often very loud!

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anotherneutralname · 25/05/2022 10:20

Sensory sensitivity is also prevalent in children who were extremely premature (I don’t think they know why yet, but possibly the highly stimulating environment of the SCBU?), I don’t know if that could be a factor?

A good OT can be an absolute treasure, so I would try and get a referral for that if you can. Really practical and helpful ideas to try, to help with either sensory seeking / sensory overwhelm situations.

VintageGibbon · 25/05/2022 10:21

Yes you can. I am definitely not autistic but I cut all labels out of clothes as I can't concentrate on anything if there is a label jabbing my neck or waist. And I can't cut out background noise. If DH tries to talk to me while the radio is on I feel instantly stressed and nauseous trying to work out which voice to tune out. I have ADD.

Your DS sounds quite like my DS though, who is autistic but never had a meltdown. He's very physically affectionate too. There is so much junk written about autistic traits, as if all autistic people speak like robots and have tantrums if their routine diverges. The spectrum is very wide, so it could be worth getting an assessment. It really helped DS get extra support in school.

SignOnTheWindow · 25/05/2022 10:24

Your DS sounds just like my DD who has ADHD

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Working9to5ish · 25/05/2022 11:02

Thanks all, mixed bag then. First port of call is GP. I think autism is probably the obvious answer so that's what I'll ask for him to be referred for assessment for. If it 's not, then at least we will hopefully get strategies for his difficulties.

He is absolutely amazing, we adore him, and just want to make sure he has support if he needs it.

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SuperSleepyBaby · 25/05/2022 12:58

Does your son have a trampoline? My som spends ages on his - he has breaks on it during homework. It is great exercise and he enjoys it too.

Working9to5ish · 25/05/2022 13:44

Yep, he does, he loves it!

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Beamur · 25/05/2022 13:55

All 3 of our kids have sensory issues of some kind. DSS was unable to tolerate stiff or itchy clothing (no labels, wore only soft t-shirts and joggers) or noise/wind for years. DSD was around food, specific textures made her gag. DD has more, she has food things going on, regulates with movement - she's the most likely I think to be ND out of the three but has declined an ASD assessment.
SC's are now adults and DSD works in children's mental health and is well versed in the diagnostics for ADHD in particular and ASD to a lesser extent. She doesn't think DD has ASD but concedes that some of her behaviour ticks a few boxes! But I am drifting - the older kids are now adults and DSS has long grown out of his issues and DSD still can't eat certain things but eats a much more varied diet.
DD is younger (teens) and showing no signs of abating.

Lilyflowerinthepond · 09/08/2023 19:08

Hi OP, I know this post is from last year but I do wonder how is your DS doing?

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