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Ex want to join our holiday - hes not invited

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Kazx81 · 24/05/2022 16:29

History of DV -we have no relationship and he has contact -all organising via text or email.
We are off on holiday this Monday and my ex even though i told him previously no said he is coming on holiday for a few days to be with his son. I had to be blunt and says hes not invited a few times - and typically he isnt getting it and saying its nothing to do with me -
what can i do?
We are making the very 1st attempt to be in the same room for my sons bday this Saturday - he being deluded now thinks this is okay
i now have the fear !

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PeekAtYou · 24/05/2022 18:32

The evil ex in the thread that I was talking about told the passport office that the passport was lost so didn't need a passport number to have it flagged.

Hopefully he's just winding you up 🙏 but definitely get a CAO. Costs £210 (?) plus mediation. You can request shuttle mediation (you and him in different rooms) if he might try and intimidate you into agreeing to something that you don't agree with.

Kazx81 · 24/05/2022 23:10

Thanks I will read that.
Looks like he's booked to come, he won't tell me where or when....
Bloody B is ruining this....

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JaniceBattersby · 24/05/2022 23:47

Aside from the legal avenues you can take, can you ring your travel company and explain the situation and ask if there’s a sister hotel you can swap to? Most hotels won’t be that busy yet so it might not be any skin off their nose. And then don’t tel your ex, obvs, or answer any texts or calls from him on holiday.

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HollowTalk · 25/05/2022 00:05

Yes, I would do exactly what @JaniceBattersby says. Explain the situation and pleaded with them to change Hotel and location.

toomuchlaundry · 25/05/2022 00:20

And make sure the travel company don’t give details to your ex

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