Hi everyone,
Back again. What would you do and where would you go? Dad with a new GF. GF has a 10 yo from another relationship. 3 yo on a video call with me and swapped the camera to the room. The 10 yo passing by saying “Move!” and deliberately kicking my child. Not even mentioning that my child is coming home saying to me: “Move!” only because I sit on a sofa. Call with dad went exactly nowhere. He is denying this of course saying his GF helps him and I should be grateful. Many other issues with those two. My child coming back with nappy rashes, although he is already potty trained and the nappy is only to be used at night. Clothes in one bag dirty and wee weed through after 3 days, so you can just imagine the smell.
Fuming. Social services declined to help in one year twice now. Don’t want to call there again. Don’t want to even withdraw my child from seeing him, because he threatens me to go to court for 3 years. Never actually did and at least allows me to travel a lot with our child. But the way they one week post pictures of them being a family with my son and next weekend I see my child being kicked by a 10 yo is absolutely terrifying.