I've been using a mix of One Life cloth nappies (am tld they are a bit like Motherease?) and disposables ever since the twins were born mnths ago. Recently bought a few extra One Life and was SHOCKED at how soft the new ones feel compared to the ones taht I've been using for months. I have been washing them at 60 degrees, without fabric conditioner as I heard this makes them less absorbant and, since the dryer part of our washer-dryer is kaput, am currently drying the nappies on radiators.
Any advice PLEASE on how to soften them up again? Is it really a terrible idea to use fabric softener? I just hate putting something that feels so rough and hard on my babies - they do soften up as they get wet of course but I want them to feel like a NICE alternative to disposables, the roughness is putting me off using them any more and I really would like to stick with using mainly cloth for many reasons.
Thanks in advance - sorry this is so longwinded!