Help please

[Tabithalevi]

Hi there,
I really need some advice.
My baby's father wants nothing to do with my daughter whom is almost 8 months.. he has another baby who is 1 and a half which he is in contact with. I'm not sure if I approach his mother and let her know that in fact she has two grandchildren.. would I be wrong to do so?? I just feel really crappy for my daughter.. I feel so sorry for her. Please, any advice is appreciated. Thank you

If he hasn't told his mother then he is a complete dick! You do not owe this kind of person any kindness.

I would offer his family the opportunity to have a relationship with your daughter, if they decide not to have one it is their loss.

Personally I wouldn’t bother but it’s your choice

I would speak to his family and let them know about her and give them the chance to have a relationship. If they choose not to then so be it.

Make sure you pursue him for child maintenance though.

I'd be tempted to think that a family who raised the sort of man who impregnates multiple women within two years and then fucks off is not the sort of family I want around my daughter.

How many times have you posted this I’ve read it in about 5 boards now 😬