I'm 27 weeks pregnant and just feel exhausted all the time. I work x2 days and x1 evening a week and look after DD (2.5 yo) x3 days a week. DD is a really good toddler but it feels like over the past couple of weeks she has just completely stopped listening to me (things like when I say stop when we are out and there is a road nearby) does the opposite of what I ask and tantrums have completely revved up. She refused to sit at the table to eat (I don't mind not eating every meal at the table but feel not eating at the table ever isn't good) she complains about being hungry all the time but won't eat meals. Ive stopped giving her snacks in the hope she will be hungry enough to eat her meals. She is refusing food she usually loves like beans, cheese, pita bread etc. I am so fed up. I'm not enjoying looking after her and its the first time I've ever felt like this. I've been constantly ill this pregnancy with colds that DD has picked up and was even signed off work for 2 weeks for a chest infection. DD has had a UTI last week but was given antibiotics and isn't complaining about it being sore anymore. Do you think she might still feel unwell and this is why she is behaving more stormy? Is it because I'm tired and have less patience? I don't know what to do and worried that she has turned into a terrible 2. DH helps out a lot and my parents take her x2 days a week when working so have a really good support network but still feel like I'm being a shit mum with no patience or energy and I worry I'm going to be an even shitter mum when the baby arrives. I just don't feel I'm coping like other mums seem to be. Im just so tired and want to cry all the time