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NEED HELP REGARDING DS NURSERIES PLEASE

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mumzyof2 · 08/01/2008 11:19

Hello, have posted on another thread, but only got two replies,
The thing is, my ds (who turned 3 a couple of years ago) goes to nursey on monday, tuesday and wednesday morning. On mondays and Wednesdays, he goes to 'Rainbows' from 9-12, that is the only times they are open - closed in the afternoons, and they cost £13 a session. I went there when I was little, my auntie works there, and he LOVES it. I would never dream of taking him out. On tuesday mornings, he goes to another nursery that is the best one in our area, from 9-12.30, as thats the only time they can fit him in. He has dinner there (they dont do dinner at 'Rainbows'.) They cost £19 for thoses 3 hours. He likes it at the more expensive nursey, but not as much as Rainbows, and for three and a half hours a week, I cant imagine him making any friends there and am starting to wonder if its a waste of money. He enjoys it there, but not as much as Rainbows.
Weve recently decided to start saving - to pay off some debts (nothing major) before baby number 2 arrives in April, and ds doesnt go to either nurseries because I work - Im a sahm, so its fine for him to be at home. We also dont get any tax credits hel with childcare.
So, do you think I should take him out of the more expensive nursery? Its not so much the money (£20 a week), but whether its a waste of time?
Advice please.

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mumzyof2 · 08/01/2008 14:35

bump :-(

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kerryk · 08/01/2008 20:11

i would take him out, it may only be £20 a week but thats £80 a month and £240 every quarter (approx) over the year you would end up saving over £1000 (providing its not term-time only)

is there something fun the both of you can do every tues morning instead that does not cost as much and gives you some quality time together (im not saying you dont have enough quality time as it is) but when the baby comes along it might be nice for ds1 to have some scheduled time with you every week.

it could be something that the new baby could come along to as well such as soft play session or perhaps someone else could watch the baby for a hour while you took ds swimming.

Alambil · 08/01/2008 20:29

I would take him out - he is 3yrs old and doesn't need to go and as you are wanting to save the money it will be of benefit to you. He won't miss out and will quickly adjust to the new routine.

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sazzybeehomeforxmas · 08/01/2008 20:59

I would take him out. At the nursery my DS is at, they won't take them for less than 2 sessions a week as they say it's too short a time for them to get to know the other kids and I think that's probably right.

If you're at home anyway, probably so much faff getting him there and back, bet you only get an hour to yourself anyway

funnypeculiar · 08/01/2008 21:01

I'd take him out too - he doesn't sound like he's getting loads out of it - & extra dosh will come in handy when no2 arrives

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