I have posted before so sorry if you've read before.
My daughters father and I had ended on bad terms. I was sexually assaulted and behind my back he spoke to the person that assaulted me to verify my story. I broke up with him when I found out. Throughout pregnancy we didn't see each other at all after an argument where he grabbed my wrists and shoved me out of the way.
He came to the birth and was good.
I had already chosen our daughters name during pregnancy. I asked him if he wanted to be involved 2 months prior. He didn't reply. When daughter was born, 4 days later he said he didn't like the name I'd chosen. I offered middle and double barrel surname. He didn't like that and said no. He forced me to do a DNA test because I wouldn't agree to change the name.
When I went to the center, he has written out daughters name as this other name with his surname. Completely erasing the names I'd chosen. Since then he's done things like threaten me via WhatsApp, contacted my friends and family members, he had no relationship with them prior. He's waited outside the town hall because he thought I was gonna be there and on another occasion, turned up outside my house with his cousin and a toy for our daughter and recorded me without speaking. Said absolutely nothing and then walked away once him and the cousin caught me on camera. These are just a few of the things he did.
Strange right. I got a non molestation order (form of restraining order) after this. Our daughter is now 1 and he posted a story on IG on her bday, calling her this false name he uses and alluding to evil people stopping him. He could file the paperwork to see her but chooses not to although he says he will to the judge every time we go to court.
He also makes podcasts and is always talking about an evil mother of his child who does things with no motive 🙃 I never speak about him publicly but I guess I just want to know what people make of this.