Youngest of four and I will hold my hands up now, we were late in training her at nighttime. She was about 4. Daytime, was from just over 2.
She is hugely determined. Very stubborn when she wants to be. Also v v bright - above her age range and has a reading age of 12. I say all this as at times, I have wondered if there is something else, or if it is physical or if it is sometimes down to her not being bothered.
Onto the bed wetting. We might go through a few weeks, maybe even six without an accident then she will wet the bed. Sometimes, we have it for a few nights on the trot and other times it will just be that once before again a few days/week later.
We tried an alarm twice. The first time, after an unsuccessful night or two, we’d go 12/14 days dry and I’d think it was cracked. Then a week or so after stopping using the alarm, she’d have a wet night. The second time she did remain dry for a good six weeks.
It’s better than it was when she was 4/5 but obviously not 100%.
What do we do now? I’m really at a loss.
Sometimes she comes and tells us in the night. Other times she tells us in the morning. Other times she doesn’t tell us at all and we realise when we go to make the beds.
Just to add, we have night lights, bathroom light and landing light on. No food/drinks (usually only drinks water at anyway) after about 6pm (goes to bed about 8pm).
Please advise!