Hello there, my post is going to be long but I request please read and share your experiences you have or had.
My Son is 21 months old now. Has very good eye contact , he reached all his milestones on time like he started walking in 11 month and talking as soon as he reached 1 year. He talks alot now he even says 2-3 words together . Responses to his name 80% of the time. Point out the things but can not with only one finger as he might not know how to fold other 4 fingers when pointing things .
Now My concerns are
He is obsessed about shapes, colours and planets( he knows whole solar system) .
He keeps saying the same word for 20 times( like if says Saturn he will be keep saying it until I divert his mind)
He stacks toys , utensils even grasses if we are out at garden
He has problem eating, can not chew food that’s why he is still on mashed food.
He has problem touching food ( either wet or dry), paint, dough or anything is wet.
He does not like hugging longer and has never kissed me or his dad. If I try to kiss him he says done.( but he likes to be held )
He is scared of slides
He does not like to play with other kids ( he can get along with adult though).
Opens and closes his fingers
Otherwise he is a happy kid loves bath , doesn’t mind brushing teeth . He understands when I am angry. Understand when I say something like I say go sit on the sofa or bring your shoes and he does .He can sing almost all the rhymes , loves reading books . He can go up and down to the stairs.
I am really worried please need suggestions and please please let me know if you know any kid like this who got better with the time .