My child recently started a new SEN school . He’s 11 . His other friends all carried on to mainstream . My son no longer sees his best friend who lives in our village but is now friendly with another child in the same village . Having a SEN child is hard and you just want to see your child have friends locally however I have an issue with one of the mums . The best friends mum who is also a good friend has chosen not to tell me that her son and the other boy are friends and spending time together and the other mum who I know fairly well has chosen to tell me that they’re always spending time together .
I’m not sure which is worse , perhaps the telling me by message they are spending time together is hurtful as probably best I don’t really know plus I’m wondering if this mum has told me on purpose that her son has his new best friend that was my sons best friend . She probably doesn’t even realise how hurtful I find it all . I don’t know why I’m feeling like this perhaps it’s wishing my son had friends . I’ve spoken to my good friend and think she understands but it’s not an easy conversation and I feel like I’m telling tales on the other mum . Any advice please …