My ex left me just before finding out that I was pregnant with our child when I told him he didn't take it very well and got angry and scared and told me he can't be a dad and that he is not ready to be a dad after plenty of different talks and emotions we cut off contact when I was about 17 weeks pregnant I am not 38 weeks and a few weeks ago he got back in contact with me telling me he loves and misses me and that he wants me back but he is still not ready to be a dad and that he wishes I wasn't pregnant and I would of waited until maybe next year witch has obviously messed with my head massively as I got over the situation and was getting on with my life he would refer the baby to our daughter and then started telling me she may look like him and different things witch I don't understand why he's talking like that, his mum is also watching my social media although I haven't got her but bare in mind his mum is the controlling type of parent and I always wonder weather she has any involvement of why he apparently can't be a dad to our daughter I often wonder and is this is the case why is she looking at my social media, he is very easily influenced by his parents especially his mum and she is the interfering type, he is younger than me however he has a good job and is in a good position in life we have come back out of contact again now I have two weeks before I give birth does anyone have any advice or what they thing if the case here or has anybody been through a similar situation I know the best thing to do is to cut him out and never speak to him again witch is the case and I will do I just don't know what they will do when she arrives 🤷🏻♀️