I need help.. maybe for me maybe for baby. So in June my dad passed away from COPD & lung clot when i was 20 weeks pregnant. He passed away due many years of smoking (astrazeneca jab he had 2 weeks before passing did not help but thats a story for another time🥲) my baby girl was 8 weeks premature due to me having preeclampsia (she is now 6 months but corrected to 4), my father in law who only just started smoking last year (🥲) is around my baby daily, now this is where i don’t know if i’m going crazy. He does not wash his hands after a cigarette, does not change jumper and if i’m downstairs sorting her a bottle and he comes in from a cigarette and he hears her crying he heads straight up to see her. Now i know thats sweet but i feel like i have PTSD from my dad smoking its where i cant hold or pick up anything to do with smoking. My mums in a mental health facility since my dad passed away who smokes and i need to get my partner to buy and drop her cigarettes because i cant touch them. I feel like the trauma of watching my dad go through what he did lives with me each day and although i know my daughter will not suffer like my dad did the thought of passive smoking SCARES ME. My partner brushes it off like im going crazy. What do i do?