Hello everyone my name is Agnes , just really on here for some advice based on a situation I'm currently facing I have a young 3 year old daughter , me and her father have broken up whilst I was pregnant due to him cheating on me wasn't there for me during my pregnancy , didn't call me or see me and changed his number we were in a relationship for 4years , I had a very difficult pregnancy too. Once I had my daughter I informed his cousin that I had my daughter since I had no contact for him eventually he got in contact with me and said he'll come round.... fast forward he started speaking to me about co parenting etc which is fine I agreed because I do want him to be apart of his daughter life but there would be times he'll go 2 months + without asking how's his daughter or seeing his daughter , what he does is randomly calls me and tells me his 10minutes away and I let him see her but sometimes he'll say his coming and doesn't come.last year september he came and didn't come back till December 2021 . 5th Jan 2022 was the last time he saw his daughter so today he called my phone I didn't answer only because this is what he does randomly pops up without actually arranging with me that he'll be seeing his daughter so he rang rang rang then he sends a messaging saying I provide for my child(which he only does WHEN he comes) he called me a hoe and if I don't allow him to see his daughter I should watch myself so I got scared cause that's what he does manipulating , I'm a young single mum when I'm struggling I can't call him for help , I just find it wrong what's his doing and he doesn't realise I tell him all the time he said I can come whenever I want , if I'm in the wrong please let me know guys