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Co sleeping in hospital

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Jurassiclover · 28/02/2022 00:34

So DS is being kept in overnight (he's 7 months) and we've been put in a room with a big cot and a tiny single bed for me.

I usually co sleep at home as I breastfeed and its the best way for us both to get sleep.

Has anyone co slept in hospital before? Will I get told off?

Thanks guys,

I could just be overthinking it but I'm currently too scared to sleep incase a nurse comes in and I get wrong haha.

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OutsideVoice · 28/02/2022 00:38

I did when ds was 18 months.
The nurse lowered the cot/bed and pushed the small parent bed up so we basically co-slept.
In the end ds slept draped over me anyway!

LuckyWithMyLot · 28/02/2022 00:39

Oh bless you, I hope you're both home soon.

My DS was in hospital at 4 weeks old and we were co sleeping at the time.
I BF him on the chair most of the night but did put him in his bed alone when he slept. I was a bit too scared to get in with him!

The nurses were doing so many checks we didn't get much sleep anyway.

Jurassiclover · 28/02/2022 00:39

@OutsideVoice oooh that's a good idea actually, thank you!!

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SleepingStandingUp · 28/02/2022 00:39

We got given a single bed. I didn't do sleep SS such, but it helped to be able to get into bed and cuddle him to sleep when necessary. Hope he's better and home soon

Aquamarine1029 · 28/02/2022 00:40

You're the mother, do as you please.

MelCat · 28/02/2022 00:44

5 years ago I was told no by the nurses when my middle one was admitted. Told there was too much risk of baby rolling out of single bed. It was a nightmare.

Jurassiclover · 28/02/2022 00:45

@LuckyWithMyLot 4 weeks? That's tiny bless you all! Thank you, hopefully should be discharged in the morning. Yeah I have a sneaky suspicion we won't sleep much anyways haha!

@SleepingStandingUp thank you! Yes that's what I'm doing now, I'm not even sure I'll be able to fall asleep haha!

@Aquamarine1029 true, however I remember when I gave birth on the ward being told several times they had a no co sleeping policy :( although I suppose they can't exactly physically stop me

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Jurassiclover · 28/02/2022 00:46

@MelCat that's what I have a feeling they'd say... hoping if I do the suggestion up thread of pushing the cot up against the side maybe they won't have as much of an issue

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SleepingStandingUp · 28/02/2022 00:48

@MelCat

5 years ago I was told no by the nurses when my middle one was admitted. Told there was too much risk of baby rolling out of single bed. It was a nightmare.
We put the sides up and built a pillow form. He was 1ish and on regular obs though
BookFiend4Life · 28/02/2022 05:34

When my baby was in the hospital I didn't try, it was such a restless night though. Obviously she was uncomfortable and crying for me a lot so I was getting up to breastfeed constantly and her wires and things would get loose everytime I nursed which would set the alarms off and wake her up further. I'm not sure how cosleeping would have worked with all her tubes but if I had to do it again I would certainly try. When she woke up the next day she smiled at me and I felt like everything was going to be ok. Good luck OP.

ShowOfHands · 28/02/2022 05:39

My local hospital positively encourage it.

RichTeaRichTea · 28/02/2022 05:42

Mine was 1yo and for the first couple of nights was too unwell to move from the cot/monitors, but when there was improvement ended up in the single bed with me - it was up against the wall so baby went on the wall side. But with regular obs there wasn’t much sleeping anyway as others have said!

AegonT · 28/02/2022 14:27

I hope you got some sleep. I co-slept in a one if those tiny fold out beds when my oldest was 8 months old and admitted to hospital with bronchiolitis. The nurses offered to get us a bigger bed but we were already dozing in the tiny bed so stuck with it.

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