Overnights

[Wik944]

How can you ask for someone child over night at 7 weeks and say they didn't mean it in any way .

What do you mean?

Huh?

My partners mom messaged saying she will take my child for a night and when I said it not right she said she didn’t mean it but how can you say you didn’t mean to say something

She was probably just being nice then seeing your reaction didn't want an argument

Yep what Yahyahs22 said.

No need to make a drama out of it.

It's something people say when they think they may have offended someone and want to avoid a conflict or argument.

Don't worry about it. It's a way of avoiding an argument.

Glad you managed to sort it out and say no to your boyfriends Mum having your 7 week old baby overnight. I saw your post about this yesterday.

It sounds to me like she was trying to be nice? 'Would you like me to have your dd overnight so that you can have a break' would be music to many new parents ears.
Your posts aren't very clear though.

@arethereanyleftatall

It sounds to me like she was trying to be nice? 'Would you like me to have your dd overnight so that you can have a break' would be music to many new parents ears. Your posts aren't very clear though.

The OP posted yesterday - sounded like she was coming under pressure to hand over her 7 week old to her boyfriends parents - who she doesn't know very well. They specifically want the baby overnight

Boyfriend doesn't live with her, (he lives with his parents) but they're still in a relationship. Boyfriend stays at weekend with her but doesn't do much with the baby.

The OP, from my point of view seems quite vulnerable. She didn't know if this was normal to hand the baby to her boyfs parents or not..... luckily her mothers instincts have kicked in because it didn't feel right.

Lots of people advised her to talk to her Health Visitor about this etc

That's the jist of what I remember.

OP - come back, please, any time you have a question!