I'm just struggling with her so much right now
She will just go and run off, number 1 or number 2
Never wipes
Never flushes
Never washes her hands
I've been firm, I've been calm, I've tried rewards. But recently it's really getting under my skin. She is constantly itching which is so gross and I'm trying to keep her hands clean. I know all kids are like that but she isn't clean down there. I've offered to do it for her! Just call me and I'll do it. But now she sneaks off and doesn't tell me she's gone. I just find it in the toilet. This morning she went in, I said, do you need help wiping? She said no it's just a wee. I said great, please can you flush and wash your hands. She came into her bedroom acting weird and laughing. I said did you do it? She said yes and I washed my hands. She didn't because I didn't hear it and her dad was in the bedroom and didn't hear the tap or the flush and her hands didn't smell of soap. She was playing in her room this afternoon. I just went in when she went out, she had locked the bathroom door from the outside and when I went in she had done a poo, no toilet paper, no washed hands.
I'm feeling so frustrated. I'm fed up of throwing pants away, her being itchy and just generally all of it. I know it's not the end of the world but I have this chat with her every day and I'm just getting so tired. I can't get through to her at all at the moment about anything. She never tells me how she feels.
Did anyone else go through something similar?
I'm feeling a bit worn down this evening so please be nice 🤣