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Is a playpen useful?

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Mimba1 · 05/02/2022 08:29

DS is 10 months and a force of nature. He's not walking yet but crawling and climbing on everything. Our downstairs is open plan and hard floors - the kitchen bit is OK but the dining table, sofa, TV unit are all potential dangers and there's only so much distracting I can do before he realises! He's too little to reliably understand "no" - and to be fair the place probably looks like a baby theme park from his height! I'd be saying no all day which kind of undermines it! At the moment whenever I'm cooking/ cleaning/ going to the loo he has to sit in his travel cot or high chair and it's full on death avoidance the rest of the time!

Right now a playpen would be a godsend but they're really pricey and don't seem to come up often on FB marketplace around here. I don't want to spend the money if I'm only going to use it for a few weeks.

Those of you with older kids - is this a short phase I should just get through or do you think it's something that will be useful for a long time and worth the investment?

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IWasFunBeforeMum · 05/02/2022 22:58

Travel cot is a good alternative and always tons on marketplace. Wouldn't leave in for hours obviously but ideal so you can get some stuff done.

ringoutthebells · 06/02/2022 13:40

@Mimba1

Thanks this is really helpful! I'd definitely prefer to section off part of the room as I'd like to be able to sit in the pen with him to play - he just darts off so quickly and there are dangers in all directions. I can't properly babyproof the room as the furniture is the issue and it's all stuff we need and use.
I'm a big fan of this kind of play pen/safe space. I don't really think they should be in a travel cot for more than a few minutes once they are on the move - a bit restrictive (for awake times obviously).
Dammitthisisshit · 06/02/2022 14:05

Surprised that so many found it useful! DD1 screamed if not with me (even if i was in the same room) so was useless with her on her own. But was great for when I had no 2 and I could put the baby in it to keep her safe whilst DD1 was in the same room. So rather than use it to keep her in I could use it as I space I could keep her out of.

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kalidasa · 06/02/2022 17:40

I'm expecting no 3 and thinking of getting one so baby can sometimes be kept clear of older ones' games (older two quite a bit older). Will wait to assess personality of baby though!

I knew someone who was one of many, many siblings and her mum used to sit in the playpen herself so she could see what was going on but have a moment of peace with a book without being pawed at! Always made me laugh.

MmmmIsee · 06/02/2022 18:01

Also surprised by how positive replies are but maybe I had a type of todder... I have 3 sons all like yours at that age op and they all hated playpens. The would scream, try to climb out, just stand at the side basically...

MmmmIsee · 06/02/2022 18:02

I used to put lots of toys in etc but they all hated being trapped. They were all v physical though and walked young. I got v fast and efficent at doing everything Grin

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