So my daughter was SGA 2.3kg at 37 weeks. No signs of iugr or fgr, we were told constitutionally small, but who knows. Enter lots of mum guilt and blame.
She caught up to approx 15th centile by 6 months and floated in that range, got up to 25th for weight but then fell to 15th after she became more mobile. That’s fine our mid parental range is from 9-91st.
She started nursery and it’s big after big after bug, she held out ok still floating around that centile and before 2, her length fell between 2nd and 9th centile, weight stayed the same and then at a check a few months ago her weight has fallen to the same centile range and she’s now faltering growth. I feel like the worlds worst parent and like I’ve failed her. She’s got another cold and a sickness bug now again so she’ll drop further. I don’t know what to do for her. She’s been prescribed weight gain drinks but she won’t drink them. I think she eats enough to keep her ticking over (we do all the tricks to make her food higher calorie) but not enough to gain and her appetite gets affected by being constantly unwell. I’m concerned because she’s not eating enough it will impact her catch up growth. Her dietician who prescribed the shakes has said calories are required for growth and at a young age growth is largely nutrition related.
I’m at a loss, DH is depressed from it and ends up inadvertently putting pressure on her which makes it worse, I’ve stopped this as soon as i noticed, but it is a very desperate situation because we are so worried about her.
At this point, what would you do? Take her out of nursery? I’m considering it, just so her health can recover. I know she might get Ill then at school but since sep 20 she’s probably had 2 weeks cumulative of good health. She’s had 2 lots of blood tests because of how unwell she gets but they’re all normal. Are there any other tests? I do think she must be more ill than the average child