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What next with 7 yros sleep?

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Indecisivelurcher · 03/01/2022 21:09

I need some outside opinions on this please! My Dd age 7 has had a lot of sleep problems since she was 4. We're at the point now where she has so many sleep crutches I don't quite know which way to go. Do I keep going with all this? Take some away? Try something else?

She has a bed tent, a weighted blanket, many soft toys, a worry monster soft toy that eats worries, music that plays all night for example children's meditations, a red night light. It can take a long while for her to fall asleep, during which time really she wants a parent upstairs. Some nights she will call multiple times that she can't sleep etc or has a bad thought. This is every evening. Husband and I would like our evenings back!

Some nights she will also have me up in the night 3 or 4 times. This is less than once a week but still notable that when she throws a bad night in, it's like she's just awake. She can't /won't just lie there awake without calling me.

It's 9pm now, she's repeatedly calling me, crying that she's thinking about a film she watched earlier (hook - which I now regret!). But if it wasn't that it would honestly be something else.

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Greydogs123 · 04/01/2022 09:54

My dd is 9 and has never seemed to need much sleep - 30 min naps as a baby! She is very sensitive and easily scared by films and even things in books, so that is something we are quite careful of to prevent waking in the night. She also needs us to sit with her, but we have managed to get to the point where her dad and I take it turns to stay in her room until 8.30 and then we leave her to get to sleep. At 7 your dd is old enough to understand that you as parents need time to do things in the evening. The other thing I notice with our dd is that she really needs some close time before sleep, she has stories and then we’ll have 10/15 mins of cuddling in bed chatting, being a bit silly, asking Alexa daft questions etc. This means dd feels relaxed and happy to be left. She also sleeps with a lamp on, always has done, I know it’s not ideal, but I also did as a child and need pitch black to sleep as an adult!

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