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Oh I'm just so fed up with ILL CHILDREN!!! (rant)

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 19/12/2007 18:50

It is getting to me ladies. Week before last Ds and me and my mother all had that horrid bug, Ds was sick all over my bed, several times, we all ended up camping downstairs. It was hellish and there was so much washing, no blankets left to sleep under etc. Anyway washing now caught up with, boys now Ok...then Ds1 gets a bad cold, cough etc. and well, he is one of those children who is always sick with a cough, it just happens, and last few nights he's been coughing like mad, waking me, waking the baby, I think i have PTSD about the sick thing from 2 weeks ago as I am just lying there thinking 'he's about to throw up all over us all again' with every cough. Last night I got the baby bath and stuck it on the bed and said, 'look, if you need it, it's there' and then he did need to throw up, and I directed him at it and it all went in the bath, brilliant.
I then decided to oust him from the communal bed as me and the baby were getting NO sleep at all thanks to poor coughing child.
He slept after a story on the sofa in his room, while I sat there bleary eyed with baby, then crept back to big bed.
No sleep was had by anyone really, it seems to be going on for weeks, I am so resentful and traumatised by having to do midnight bed changes, that I feel like just giving up.
Nobody is there to take a turn at it.
Arggghhhhhhh

Sorry about that. Thankyou for reading.
Don't suppose anyone else is feeling under attack by germ ridden four year olds? If not would someone like to adopt him please? Just for a week or two...

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needmorecoffee · 19/12/2007 19:34

but isn't it amazing how a man can sleep through the first wail, the lights going on, the cleaning of the child, changing of the bed, rinsing of sheets and turning on of washing machine....

moodlumtheHOHOhoodlum · 19/12/2007 19:37

When ds was mid vomit session a couple of nights ok, to give dh his due he did do all the nasty clearing up, and put the stuff in the washing machine.

BUT. When I'm upstairs with ds, who has been sick everywhere again, and I am calling for help, dh is downstairs CHANGING THE SIDE THE DOOR TO THE TUMBLE DRIER IS ON, because "it had just annoyed me too much for a long time". He had his drill out and everything. Its the middle of the night, I'm covered in vomit, is now the time for unnecessary diy?

TwinklyfLightAttendant · 19/12/2007 19:37

Ah, I wouldn't know...tis only I, who leaveth it all in the bath till morn...

I imagine men are very good at not noticing it though!

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 19/12/2007 19:38

rofl, Hoodlum!! Unnecessary DIY!!!

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 19/12/2007 19:39

I do wish there was a man though, if only to get cross and resentful with for not noticing...

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ISawSantaKissingKerrysNorks · 19/12/2007 19:40

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 19/12/2007 19:47

Oh poor Kerry! Sorry if we have set you off again. I feel similarly suggestible...

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needmorecoffee · 19/12/2007 19:50

my DH once put the sheets into the machine without removing the chunks first. yuck

TwinklyfLightAttendant · 19/12/2007 19:51

Oh I did this

At least the sick that fell out of the door was clean sick.

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needmorecoffee · 19/12/2007 20:16

yum, clean chunks.
Off to bed for an early night and will try to get that image out of my head

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 20/12/2007 07:04

Oh I knew I would miss all the fun when I went to bed early!

Sorry for that mental image. I will now let this slide off active convos so nobody else has to endure it...

JAM please tell your dear, sweet husband that we are eternally grateful There should be more like him!!!

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moodlumthehoodlum · 20/12/2007 20:17

Following on from last night's "Great Voms of our time", please raise your glasses to ds, who in one short vomiting session earlier has managed to achieve a great deal.

  1. Vomit all over the stairs, the bannisters, the landing carpet.
  1. Vomit all over me, such that I have to change my underwear.
  1. Important to mention that he had eaten jacket potato with cheese and BAKED BEANS for supper, therefore this is orange vomit.

I think I can safely say that I have now inhaled enough of the germs to ensure a terrible few days.

moodlumthehoodlum · 20/12/2007 20:18

Sorry, forgot to mention that it is our wedding anniversary tonight, so not the most romantic opener.

needmorecoffee · 21/12/2007 09:57

Yup, right up there with 'great voms of our time'
Wont you just miss it when they grow up and leave home.....

Sapphier · 21/12/2007 10:34

awww bless you! how hard this must be for you! i send lots of sleep and hugs to you.

There is me moaning in another thred (sofas have moved across the room) i have been v. lucky so far that neither of us have been ill yet, i can just about get through the day now let alone at the thought of coping in the night too!

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